How to know if she is the one you should marry

You met her in work, in university, during a trip you had with friends, and you started to know each other with time and now you both feel comfortable with each other and there is a sort of affection between you. You are still just friends or colleagues, but you really feel like you have to take a step forward and you are thinking maybe this is the right woman for me… maybe this is the one I should marry.

No, don’t take that step too fast and be patient, because the fact that you like or even love each other doesn’t mean she is the right woman for you. Get out of your emotions and feelings cascade for a moment and try to think logically about her.

Yes, sometimes people just find their “soul mates” with no effort and live a happy life together. But that’s not how it works normally. Actually, you have to take your time, think wisely far away from emotions distraction and choose before you go further with the wrong woman. Here are some of the best ways to help you out know if you’ve found the right one.

You are older than her

The age gap doesn’t necessarily affect relationships, and there are many men having an amazing and successful life with wives older than them with two or even 5 years gap. But you have to pay attention to age gap if you want to do things the right and safe way because not all women have the same mindset, and actually, most of them tend to have more affection for older men, but not too old (more than 10 years).

The first thing that makes a lady fall in deep love with a man is not his nice behavior, his great sense of humor, his beautiful eyes or healthy body, no! It’s actually the sensation of safety. She needs to feel that she is between good hands, that she is with a mature and wise man.

Sometimes the man can be more mature and wiser than a woman even if he is younger, and she will feel safe with him in the beginning, but that doesn’t last longer and her subconscious nature will make her lose the safety feeling and push her to no longer have the same respect and admiration she had for him.

Another reason to know is that an older woman will start suffering from self-consciousness problems with time; she will get the feeling that she is aging and doesn’t look pretty anymore while you are still young and handsome and there are many young beautiful women around you…, and sometimes it is right! She is really aging and you will feel uncomfortable about that because physical appearance is an important thing for most of the men whatever how much love they have in their hearts.

She is trustworthy

You trust her, and everybody does. She is an honest person and you can feel that clearly in the way she talks and express her ideas and thoughts and she always means what she says. You have to stay away from a woman if you are confused, have doubts about her, or if you find difficulties to trust everything she says, whatever how much you love each other.

Actually, woman honesty is related to her maturity and self-confidence levels, the more a woman is honest, the wiser and mature she is, and there are big chances to have a stable, healthy and stress-free relationship with her.

She is not temperamental

She is emotionally consistent, have complete control in her feelings and she is not a moody person. Actually, this is a type of toxic people you should stay away from, and when it’s about choosing the right life partner you must completely stay away from this kind of women.

If she is temperamental, that means that she is struggling with her own self and that she is far away from being ready to have a relationship with a man. She will create problems from everything and you will feel lost and confused when trying to deal with her moods.

She doesn’t have a male close “friend”

This is not valid for all women, but in most cases, the man she is telling everybody and you that he is just a friend of her is actually a man she is having a complicated relationship with and they both have secret and deep buried affection and feelings for each other.

Yes, she may love you and have even more affection for you than him, but she will keep thinking about that “friend” who has been with her for years and helped her out when she was alone; and how her life could be if she was with him instead of you, and she will feel guilty for not giving him a chance, and you will feel that she is not having a conformable life with you over time.

In the worst scenario (if she is not a loyal and honest person) she will betray you right after the first mistake you make… just don’t take the risk and stay away from women with close male friends because they don’t clearly know what they want.

She understands what you mean when no one gets you

You are in a work meeting, and you just gave your opinion and explained your way of thinking, but your speech was a little bit complicated and only a person who knows you can understand it, and then you notice that she is the only one who got you.

That’s a good sign that a woman has a close mindset to yours, or that she is actually making effort to get to understand you and know how you think and that she was smart enough to crack your code. With this kind of women, you will have great communication and deep conversations, you will overcome your relationship problems easily, and there will be no misunderstanding between you.

She respects your ambitions

Whatever how much your goals and ambitions are different or maybe weird, she respects them and she shows a supportive attitude. Stay away from a woman who is not OK with your ambitions and what you are trying to achieve, a woman who is ready to push you away from what you love and what you dream of realizing, and ready to do everything to make you have the same ambitions as her.